Thursday, May 16, 2013

One

This is a great book for teaching kids to stand up for one another.  It is about the role of the bystander.  When kids stand by and watch other kids get bullied, they are as culpable as the person doing the bullying behavior.  (I try to avoid using the word bully)  It is very harmful to their self esteem to watch and not help.  Lots of people have stories from their past about someone they wish they had stood up for, and they are very sorry that they didn't. 


Super Flex and The Unthinkables

This is the second book that I used.  It is called SuperFlex and The Unthinkables.  This is more like a story blook with characters.  Super Flex is the one that helps everyone when they are being attacked by The Unthinkables.  There are fourteen unthinkable behaviors.  They are Rock Brain (inflexible), Glass Man (throws fits),  Mean Jean (bossy and mean), Wasfunnyonce (silly when it is serious time and tells the same jokes over and over), DOF TheDestroyer of Fun (too competitive, ruins the game), One-Sided Sid (always has to talk about himself), The Un-Wonderer (never asks anyone questions about them), Topic Twister Meister (always brings the subject to what he wants to talk about), Worry Wall (always stressed), Brain Eater (distracted by video games, computer, and TV),  Space Invader (gets too close and too touchy), Energy Hare-y (hyper), Body Snatcher (gets people to wander away from the group), and Grump Grumpaniny (always negative, never positive).
I was concerned that this is a way for kids to call each other names, and I am going to watch that closely.  It is important to refer to them as behaviors.  Again, I have been very surprised about how much the kids have absorbed all of this.  It has been surprising for the kids to realize that some of their behaviors are not endearing.  Some kids think it is funny to be hyper.  They seem surprised to learn that this is UNEXPECTED and UNCOMFORTABLE.   Anyway I think it is worth the time to post about it.  My kids are always looking for new ideas to help with their kids.  This stuff seems to be pretty effective. 

We are Social Detectives

At long last I have inspiration for a new post.  I have learned of a new curriculum that I have been teaching the kids.  At first I resisted it, because it seems rather silly, and I was afraid it would not click, but I was Oh, so wrong!!  There is a lot of material available, but I just used two of the books.  The first one is called Social Detective.  It discusses Social Smarts.  It introduces the idea that people are watching us and our behaviors.  They notice when we do things that are "EXPECTED" and "UNEXPECTED".   When we do things that are "EXPECTED", people are COMFORTABLE with us, and they have good feelings about us, AND we have good feelings about our self because we are doing expected behaviors.  When we do things that are "UNEXPECTED", people are UNCOMFORTABLE, and they don't want to be around us.  Also, we don't have good thoughts about our selves because we are making people feel uncomfortable.  THE KIDS REALLY SEEM TO GET IT!!  "Unexpected" is a perfect word!  It gives everyone a word to use when maybe they want to say "inappropriate" or "unacceptable" and those words seem too negative.  Kids want to argue about the fact that someone throwing a fit is what is expected of that person because they do it every day.  The answer is that throwing a fit is STILL unexpected behavior.  It might be typical or common or even expected of that person, but it is STILL "Unexpected" behavior.  The great thing is that the teachers and all of the adults in the school love it too.  They are using it with their spouses and their kids.  If you have someone in your life that you have trouble communicating with about their behaviors, give it a try.  Really, if we are doing things that make people feel uncomfortable, we probably want to know.  This is a way that makes it easier to digest.
 

Thursday, March 21, 2013

HAPPY ST. Patrick's Day!!
Thanks to our office for helping me be a better Gramma.  They gather great ideas from Pinterest, and then I just copy and mail.
Too bad that Relief Society's Birthday got lost in the green of it all!

Thursday, January 10, 2013

Happy Birthday Jenn!!

Cuddle Time!
Breakfast in Bed!  Thanks Kate!
            Jennifer Laura Lewis Cunningham turns 33 years young this morning!  We are so happy she is part of our family!  Love you cutie!  Hope it is a fun day with your darling family.

Wednesday, January 02, 2013

Sunrise

I am not sure if it is guilt or boredom, but I decided to do a new post.  Actually two new posts.  Two weeks before Christmas was the designated time for me to be relieved of my Relief Society calling of 3+ years. I am not sure who it was harder on, me or the lucky sister that received such a calling two weeks before Christmas. I was sure that the sun would keep rising for everyone else. I just wasn't sure that it would keep coming up for me. I am happy to report, that it has. The feelings at first were sadness and relief, in that order. The order has switched, thankfully. I loved every minute of it, and it is, and was, a great blessing in my life. Change is good. Christmas is a wonderful time of the year. We had a great time, and thought about cherished memories. I hope this year will be filled with peace, comfort, and love for our amazing family and for all that we know and hold dear.

Merry Christmas!!







We missed Pennsylvania, Washington, and Florida!!   We did have a wonderful Christmas Eve and want to wish everyone a Happy New Year!!

Monday, November 19, 2012

Adjustments

Life is very different at our house.  I am working at two schools.  Daughter Liz, retirement specialist (State Office), informs me that my future will be brighter, if I work full time for three or four years before I retire.  I didn't make as much in my full time years as I did in my halftime years with a Masters Degree.  SO, my day starts at five.  I am still adjusting.  I am sure I will be glad.  Stock market not looking too good, so I better have something I can count on.  I also have three darling grandchildren and their cute mom living with me.  Life is different, but all is good.  I have a new project.  It is moving slowly, because it is new to me, but fun and distracting nevertheless.  We are thankful this week for all of our many blessings.  We have many.

Saturday, October 13, 2012

Happy Birthday, MOM!

Happy Birthday to the worlds best mom!
I love you and hope you have the most amazing 50th (wink wink) birthday ever! I'm so grateful for your influence in my life. It is an honor to be your daughter and my biggest hope and prayer is that my kids look up to me one day as much as I look up to you. Happy Birthday!!

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Tracie Lewis Norton

Happy Birthday Wonderful Daughter, Tracie!! Great shot of our two birthday girls! Hope your day is as amazing as you are! No tending, taking people shopping or to the doctor. Just FUN and Family. You deserve it!! Thanks for being a beautiful example to all of us in so many ways.
                                                               WE LOVE YOU TONS!!

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Elizabeth Anne Lewis Horton




Our beautiful daughter is 24 years old today!!  WOW!  Where does the time go?  Happy Birthday to Liz, a wonderful, dedicated, fun loving girl.  We are so grateful to have you in our family.  You add a lot of sparkle to all of our lives.  Thanks for your loving support this last year.  You are a great listener and the best "vault" we have.  We are so happy to have you "so close".  It has been a lot of fun sharing a roof with you.  Hope your day is amazing!  JUST LIKE YOU!  LOVEYOUTONS

Friday, August 31, 2012

Busy Summer







I guess everyone that reads the blog thought that I did nothing this summer because I didn't do much blogging.  Well, not so.  For starters I spent a lot of time in the yard.  "Remember Courtyard" is looking more beautiful than I would ever have imagined.

Friday, August 24, 2012

Tracie and SpencerMan

Serious bonding going on here.
The film that taught us about Gramma's school that was torn down for the temple to be built.
Tyler was definitely not sure about wearing these.
Just chillin' at the temple.
Very special day.
Beautiful fountain and tabernacle to the east.
Let us in!
View from second south.  Five blocks from where I grew up.
As long as there are "city swimming pools", this will still be the land I love.
Dominoes!
Handsome and Smart.  Gotta get this shirt for all the grandkids.
A new favorite hangout.  Station Park in Farmington.
We enjoyed a great two week visit with Tracie and SpencerMan.  We were able to do a lot of fun things!  We did the usual Bananagrams and movies.  We also got to swim at Farmington Pool which was a new event.  We went to the Open House of the Brigham City Temple, Maddox, Johnny Rockets, Station Park, Initiatories for family names at the Salt Lake Temple, and lots of Lego down time.  Thanks for coming Pennsylvania People.  Come on back and stay a while!

Monday, August 20, 2012

Happy Birthday to Dr. Muhlestein

Tracie caught me snoozing as I was trying to finish the binding.
If you look really hard, you can see Gelder William Lewis with a heart.
I love it!  Quilted with overlapping circles to represent Eternity.
Ready to deliver.
I always knew that I would be making a quilt for Dr. M.  Bill and I had even talked about it.  I just couldn't wrap my brain around it for the longest time.  One day I stumbled onto the perfect fabric for Bill.  Moda's "Reunion" featured fabric that looked like checkered flags, and then banners that looked like what you would see at a race.  Perfect for Bill.  Then I added some red to represent "the heart" for Dr. M.  He was Bill's cardiologist.  I finally finished it this morning.  As luck would have it, son-in-law Josh works at IMC on the very same floor as this wonderful man.  He checked his schedule for us, and found out we could come today before 12:30 or tomorrow after 12:30.  We decided today would be best, but I had to hurry.  It was a mad dash, but it all worked out and we were on the road by 11:30.  He was thrilled to get it.  He loved it.  He kept marveling at how perfect the stitches were on the quilting, and so I had to explain it had been machine quilted.  All of the rest was cut, pieced, and bound with love by hand especially for him. We wanted it to represent the great gratitude and appreciation that we have for him as he helped us through this most difficult time.  The word, "gratitude" kept going through my head all morning, and I know it was Bill making sure that was what he wanted expressed.  So I told him how much we loved and appreciated him.  While we were there, someone in his office said, "It's his birthday today!".  We had no idea, but all the more fun.  He said that it was his first present, and he loved it!

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Handsome Men

We are enjoying a visit from Spencer and Tracie. 

Saturday, July 28, 2012

John Jacob Zundel

This is John Jacob Zundel. John Jacob Zundel was working as a butcher in Phillipsburg, Pennsylvania when a Mormon Elder came there and taught him the Gospel of Jesus Christ. As soon as he heard the missionary preach, he knew it was the true religion and was baptized in the Ohio River in 1836.

John Jacob Zundel and his wife Sarah joined other Mormons by moving to Nauvoo, Illinois. They bought a farm and built a brick house. They lived comfortably and enjoyed the Gospel. John Jacob worked building the Nauvoo Temple and taught the Prophet Joseph Smith the German language.
John Jacob and his family were forced to leave Nauvoo by mob violence. In doing this he lost all of his property and suffered with the other Mormons, enduring many hardships. They moved to Council Bluffs, Iowa. In September of 1847, he wrote: "I dare write to you, though in exile. Myself, my wife and five children are well and hope that this may reach you the same. We live in the main camp at Winter Quarters, west of the Missouri River, surrounded by six different Indian tribes. The land is very good. We have a city consisting of more than a thousand wagons and tents. We had a very hard winter and lost a great number of cattle for lack of food and excessive cold and much was stolen by the Indians."  With a testimony burning within him of the truthfulness of the Gospel, John Jacob and his family in the year of 1852, joined Captain David Wood's company, and with their covered wagon, oxen and two cows started the long journey west. They milked the cows, and what milk was not used was put into a barrel on the back of the wagon, and the roughness of the trail soon churned the milk into butter. Many experiences were witnessed on the plains, but they were blessed exceedingly in their journeyings although progress was slow, sometimes with the loss of a few head of cattle. When they first arrived in the valley, they stayed with John Jacob Zundel's sister, Magdalena, a pioneer of 1847.  I am very proud of my pioneer heritage. I ponder the struggles of these ancestors and feel so grateful that they had the fortitude to endure and do what they needed to do. I often wonder if I could have done the same. So on this the 24th of July, 2012 I exclaim: Blessed Honored, Pioneer!
(This post was stolen word for word from my cousin Lisa's blog, but I wanted all my kids to see and know it)  THANKS LISA!!

Sunday, July 22, 2012

The name's Bond .....James Bond.

I have always been such a big fan of 007.  When I was young, I had every one of the books and read them each several times.  July is James Bond month on Encore, and I have so enjoyed watching all of the old ones.  What I remember about the books is lots of underwater fighting and lots of sharks.  The old ones represent this very well.  Of course Sean Connery is James Bond, and he is the favorite.  I have to say that Daniel Craig comes in a close second.  After watching so many with Roger Moore this month, I am willing to give him an honorable mention.  I don't have anything against Pierce Brosnan, but I have no use for the other two.  One of them was in my all time favorite book.  That would be the one where James Bond got married.  It was very disappointing to have such a "non-Bond" for that one.  Anyway.....who is your favorite Bond?

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Happy Birthday Lindsay!!

Happy Birthday to Lindsay!!  This is a big birthday for you, darling daughter.  I can't believe that 30 years ago today the doctor said, "Let's go over to that hospital and have a baby!"  You are a wonderful daughter, loving wife, amazing mom, caring sister, and awesome friend.  Hope your day is as great as it can be with a big weekend celebration!!  We love you very much!

Friday, July 06, 2012

St. George

So much fun.  SO MUCH SUN!  We had a great four days swimming, eating, hiking, and chatting.  Going home tomorrow, but so glad we came.

Thursday, June 28, 2012

We are going to miss you......

My very wonderful bed partners!
Very brave at the dentist!
Favorite activities...tramp, looking for potato bugs, and picking berries.
Helping Gramma plant flowers.
Popcorn, root beer floats, and cousin sleepovers.
Fun trip to Castle Park with Pilar and Maddox!
"What's on the news today, Gramma?"